The Privilege of Family Honour

Living with the ability to praise your ancestors for their deeds or character is a privilege afforded only to a few.

Being able to recall stories of their noble deeds gives inspiration to us in the present. It serves as an endless reservoir for us to draw strength from. We are able to stand upon the shoulders of giants by being able to remind ourselves to act how they acted and do as they did.

Many are unfortunately unable to look upon their mother, father or ancestors before them for any notable trait or deed. There remains hardly any memory or record of extraordinary character and principle from them. Some may even have examples but remain oblivious to learning from them. Thus they live chronically alone in their lives, with no family honour or good reputation attached to their name to avail them as they sail through time.

The one who can draw from the dignity and honour of his ancestors is never alone, and to him, the high water mark of nobility is clearly marked. There is a standard that he must at the very least meet, if not supersede. This acts as an inherent encouragement for him to improve himself and act nobly in his own right. For as long as he lives, this imperative will always be with him. The gentle whispers reminding him of his family reputation will be carried to him by the wind wherever he may be.

If we want our children to experience this same latent power and inspiration their whole lives, we must endeavour to live, honourable, dignified lives of our own. We needn’t achieve any fantastical feat, we merely need to live our lives according to the timeless principles of honour, mercy, humility and all round good character.

When we thus pass, we will leave to them an inheritance greater than any acquired gold or silver.