The man with confidence stands out from amongst his peers as someone who isn’t afraid to reasonably change things to suit his needs.
Indeed, the healthily confident man is the one who actively seeks to mould the world to his requirements. He sees everything as a tool to achieve his ends. If something can be done, he will utilise every means possible to do it.
This feeling itself however, comes from a deeper, overwhelming sense of security in the world that gives one the idea that it can be moulded to fit his desires in the first place. The deep-seated feeling that the world isn’t set in stone, that it isn’t rigid and inflexible, but rather that it can be leveraged and contorted to act in assistance to him is deeply freeing and a source of great inspiration and optimism.
Such a man feels that the world is a familiar enough place to experiment with at all.
This sense of security comes from years of consistent love one receives from his parents and family growing up. The same strong, confident family life that projects itself onto the world embeds its outlook of confidence and abundance into the heart of all its children. When a family forms a cohesive, loving unit, they become a crowd of their own. They provide the fertile soil for its children to feel confident and secure in their ability to achieve whatever they want. Nothing is impossible for he who has a loving family around him.
The root of the confidence of so many men is therefore a strong, supportive family structure. If you nurture this for your own family, you provide an environment where children can grow to see the world through the lens of opportunity, abundance and success.
The generational cycle that has the power to change the world lies with us.