Being the Father and Husband as part of a traditional family means you are quite literally a king, and your family is your kingdom.
You must manage finances (Treasury), establish justice between conflicting parties (High Courts), promote the religious wellbeing of all (Religious High Authority), establish security within the realm (Commander) and keep an overview of the health and wellbeing of all (Ministry of Health) while ensuring the kingdom (family) is moving upon a positive, righteous trajectory honouring God.
The result is that you see your family grow before your eyes shaped by your vision. This is the ultimate and most rewarding part of the entire royal enterprise.
The true king worthy of his title is he who works selflessly for those he is responsible for. The decisions he takes and the authority he commands are not abused for his own benefit. Rather, what benefits his kingdom is how he decides what campaigns to set out upon in the first place.
His rule is just and authoritative, but beneath the cloak lays mere servitude. He uplifts and grows those under his care as though they were flowers and trees. It is he who is given divine authority and it is he who feels its weight upon his shoulders.
The true king wishes for nothing more than the success and flourishing of his kingdom and it is in this sincere concern for it that his authority is confirmed.